What Stops You From Living Your Best Life?

Life isn’t always easy, but we at least hope that we’re moving in the right direction, and that good times are coming up ahead. Alas, in order for that to happen, we need to be planting the seeds that’ll eventually develop into something great, and that’s not possible if we’re continually weighed down by things that prevent us from living our best lives. The good news is that it’s usually possible to identify these weights and to take steps to correct them. We take a look at a few common issues below, as well as offer advice on how to overcome them.

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Small-Mind Thinking
Sometimes, we’re not even aware that we aren’t living our best lives. It’s so easy to fall into a comfortable way of thinking, during which we accept our situation without any hesitation. We may not be entirely happy, but it could always be much worse, right? While that’s a nice attitude on occasion, it can hold us back. Instead, look at adopting a ‘what’s the best thing that could happen’ approach. You have to dream of great things before making them a reality, so get thinking big.

How You Talk To Yourself
We’ve all got an inner critic. Even the most successful people can be plagued by that internal voice. However, most people can overcome these little criticisms and push forward with their dreams. If you can’t, then you may need a little help in order to change your way of thinking. A cognitive behavioral therapy program can help you to change your thinking from negative to positive, and can make a real -- and lasting -- difference to your life. You’ll find that it’s much easier to pursue your dreams when you’re not held back by negative thinking.

Energy and Tiredness
It’s much easier to do all that you want to do in life if you have the energy to live life to the fullest. If you’re one of the many people that seem to always be running on empty, then take a look at making some changes. The first step is to take a look at the things that may be holding your energy back. If you’re drinking too much alcohol or have poor sleeping habits, then you can’t be surprised if you’re a little drained. Cut back on the alcoholic drinks and improve your sleeping conditions (including your pre-sleep routine), and in a couple of weeks you’ll find that you’ve got energy to spare.

The People Around You
We’d all hope that the people around us will lift us up and help us to become our best selves. However, this isn’t always the case. Sometimes we have poisonous people around us. Even though we may call them our friends, they could be holding us back. Take a look for signs that a friend may be toxic, and if they fit the bill, then look at cutting them out of your life. You should surround yourself with loving and caring people that want the best for you.